One of the things that hurts my feelings in life is that
people don’t prepare you for what lies ahead…Whether its about marriage, sex,
or having a baby…People are often not truthful about their experiences which in
turns inhibits our ability to help minister to each other. We inadvertently
deny our relationships a unique opportunity to grow closer and stronger when we
hold back our experiences. Many times pride steps in the way of sharing with
others…Often guised as “I am a private person…or I can’t trust anyone.” The
reality is…my pride prevents me from admitting I have problems in the present. I can talk all day long about the past in some cases...But talking about it in the here and now is a differently story...As I think about post-partum and the changes that await me, I want to learn to
let go of that pride…And be honest with myself and those around me. If I am
suffering I want you to know…so you can help me…whether its through your
prayers, or words of wisdom and encouragement. But that cannot happen if pride
is in the way.